tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11904671.post113002681378795203..comments2023-08-25T03:21:41.842-07:00Comments on The Petch House: Blow BackGreghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02807710209656158413noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11904671.post-1130189769383599052005-10-24T14:36:00.000-07:002005-10-24T14:36:00.000-07:00I'm another of the cry-when-angry girls. *sigh* It...I'm another of the cry-when-angry girls. *sigh* It definitely ruins the effect if you dissolve into sobs and get all red-faced.<BR/><BR/>These people sound <I>charming</I>. I agree with the others that you should get something in writing.Khttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14419829266401536453noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11904671.post-1130092938239409732005-10-23T11:42:00.000-07:002005-10-23T11:42:00.000-07:00I bet it was "talk" and bluster his trying to get ...I bet it was "talk" and bluster his trying to get the "dirt" on you. These fellows don't sound that industrious riding on Mom's coat tails and causing her trouble in her home. <BR/><BR/>I know the feeling (quaver). I had to confront some little kids(ages 6-12) about repeatedly trampling and ripping out my tulips and I was scared of them! But they were some rough city kids and I feared retaliation(i.e. more plant destruction). Fortunately they moved away and never hurt my plants again.Jocelynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13570623978361702328noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11904671.post-1130087079325145782005-10-23T10:04:00.000-07:002005-10-23T10:04:00.000-07:00So are they not going to park there any more? It ...So are they not going to park there any more? It seems crazy that he would spend his time digging up dirt on you when he could just choose to park his equipment elsewhere. Whatever he might be able to find on you surely won't be worse than them tearing down buildings and getting cited for running the business there. <BR/><BR/>I wonder what the state is on their business license and contractor's license.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11904671.post-1130063258414657082005-10-23T03:27:00.000-07:002005-10-23T03:27:00.000-07:00Eeek! I hate confrontation and just like Suzanne ...Eeek! I hate confrontation and just like Suzanne I end up crying like a ninny. I would follow StuccoHouses advice and pay an attorney to draft a letter and have no further physical face-to-face contact with them. Ever. I don't know what else to tell you, I wish I did. Oh yeah, if you do get into another argument, and you start to walk away, and the butt-head says something else, keep on walking and if he follows, call the cops.Ms. P in Jacksonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16044745952111340330noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11904671.post-1130046113661282752005-10-22T22:41:00.000-07:002005-10-22T22:41:00.000-07:00Good luck. It's a sad damnded day when law abiding...Good luck. It's a sad damnded day when law abiding folk try to better their lot and some sad wretch has to make trouble.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11904671.post-1130041812058254062005-10-22T21:30:00.000-07:002005-10-22T21:30:00.000-07:00Greg, I totally sympathise. I hate confrontation t...Greg, I totally sympathise. I hate confrontation too, and it upsets me so much I practically have heart palpitations when I get that angry that I have to have it out with people. My problem is that I get so angry I start crying, which totally ruins the rightous anger thing and is so innefective and girly. I've always secretly envied people who think nothing of jumping into a good yell fest and can walk away clean. My heart is still pumping wildly an hour after the fact.<BR/>However, there comes a time when you have to stand and fight, and not let people use you for a doormat. I can't offer you any good advice, but I hope you are able to resolve the situation to your favor, hopefully without having to all Brooklyn on their butts. Good luck!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11904671.post-1130039742777656812005-10-22T20:55:00.000-07:002005-10-22T20:55:00.000-07:00For what is is worth, here is what my lawyer frien...For what is is worth, here is what my lawyer friend told me to do in my "situation." Write the guy a letter and send it registered mail (i.e. they sign for it). State that your attorney has advised you to request that due to the hostile situation any future contact must be in writing to you. Hopefully this will freak him out.<BR/><BR/>Then report in infraction to the proper authorities in writing. Also mention that the other guy has made threats against you. I think your hope here is to preempt any action he tries to take against you...and make anythig he does look like revenge (which it is) and to have the police aware of the situation.<BR/><BR/>Sigh. Why are some people such jacka**es? Good luck!StuccoHousehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10608839109697874015noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11904671.post-1130033887927021432005-10-22T19:18:00.000-07:002005-10-22T19:18:00.000-07:00Hey, give their address! I can send them some kitt...Hey, give their address! I can send them some kitty poo with an Ohio postmark with a note attached that reads "Someone somewhere thinks you're a sh*t".<BR/><BR/>You could always sneak out at night in a ninja suit, crawl under their vehicle and slap a fish on their engine block....Garyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14490458126307090201noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11904671.post-1130028747153333752005-10-22T17:52:00.000-07:002005-10-22T17:52:00.000-07:00don't know what all this is about since i don't fo...don't know what all this is about since i don't follow any house blogs, but i hope it works out for you. i feel for you since i have known some people who don't remain calm during arguments or discussions. good luck.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com